What does change stands for? It is
To be altered, to undergo variation, as human beings sometimes change for the good and may be in some extreme cases bad.
Well I had been thinking about this from the past many months but I was not actually able to gather that much of information about the word change or why does people try to change themselves just for others or why a change is required in our lives? Questions like this were keep on striking up my head that from where I can have my correct answer for my silly questions. Well sometimes even good questions look like silly ones coz they came firstly in our mind. [:D] I asked my near ones about this but they said why you are getting into it, who cares mann ???? These were the words which I actually received.
Well even giving time to your thoughts regarding change factor ain't bad actually. Yeah really. What I've seen nearby me is that few of my close friends do this just to impress there girlfriends so that they can atleast say that "see its only your love that changed me". But ask me I've seen there real side even after the so called "CHANGE".
Change sometimes can be bad and can be good also. It all depends on the other person that how he look after it. Some people looking after that change get sad and those people are none another than your close ones who know you better, who are well aware of each and everything which is related to you, doesn't mater how small that thing can be. and those who are happy are surely not the ones who are close to you. They show in front of us that they care for us but actually its the other way round. changing yourself is actually you are making compromise.
Many people even just try to make you jealous by saying that "yaar I've just changed myself" when you ask them "why are you behaving like this..??" Well at that time even you get pissed off but actually you are also helpless coz may be its you who is behind all this shit behaviour. What ever the time, situation, and condition may be, others don't even bother about that if you felt bad or not.
Well sometimes change seems to be very easy that "yea yea we can do it...whats the problem mann..we can do anything..." and blah blah blah but if the person really wants to get changed on a serious note then it is the hardest thing in life which is like NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE.
Note:-> The content for this post has been created in the meantime when I Opened my blog ID[:D]. I was present in some of the situations but not in every situation which I've mentioned in this[:P].
Neil...
